Shelby McCaw

ACCREDITED FAMILY MEDIATOR

I specialize in Parenting Mediation, Co-Parent Counselling and Voice of the Child Reports. I take a client-centered and child-focused approach to provide mediation for those separating or divorced.

Availability

NOW ACCEPTING CLIENTS

Monday to Friday*
10am - 6pm

*Special accommodations can be made for those who require them.

Format

ONLINE
via secure video sessions

IN-PERSON OAKVILLE
775 Pacific Road, Unit 34
Oakville, ON L6L 6M4

Rates

Begin at $175+tax CND

*Rates vary per individual service and are available on each Specialized Service page

  • I OFFER:

    Parenting Mediation

    Co-Parent Counselling / Coaching

    Voice of the Child Reports

    I SPECIALIZE IN:

    Separation and Divorce / Court Mandated and High-Conflict Mediations

    Conflict Resolution and Communication Strategies

    Family Conflict and Dynamics

    I WORK WITH:

    Couples and Families

  • Conflict Resolution

    Communication Strategies / Healthy Communication

    Family Conflict

    Family Dynamics

    Interpersonal Skills

    Life Transitions

    Separation and Divorce

  • Child-Focused Mediation

    Client-Centered Approach

    Motivational Interviewing

    Transformative Mediation

  • BA, Acc.FM Accredited Family Mediator

    OAFM (Ontario Association of Family Mediation) Member

    Certified Voice of the Child Practitioner

  • Bachelor of Arts Psychology Honours with a Specialization in Psychological Development (specifically Child Development) Across the Lifespan, Trent University

    Postgraduate Certificate in Family Mediation York University

Let’s see if we’re a good fit…

Peace is not the absence of conflict, but the ability to cope with it.

Mental health means balancing caring for yourself, your children, feelings your emotions and developing the skills to cope with them.

Taking care of your mental health isn't selfish; it might just feel that way if you haven't made it a priority. After a breakup, one of the key moves for a parent is finding that sweet spot between self-care and helping the kiddos process everything. Sure, it's a common misconception that this journey is supposed to be a walk in the park—it's not. But, hey, nothing genuinely good ever is. It's about navigating the challenge with a balanced focus on your well-being and being there for your little ones

Here at Peachey Counselling, we offer a safe space where the seeds of healing can be planted, and a learning environment that promotes healthy co-parenting can start to thrive.

I bring both compassion and transparency to my role, working collaboratively with both parties to foster cooperation. My focus extends beyond crafting mere parenting plans; I strive to create practical and livable blueprints that contribute to the best possible childhood for your children.

I want you to know that I listen. I will always listen and ensure you feel heard, valued and safe.

I’m here for you.

Q&A

  • Reflecting on my own experience, my parents went through a separation when I was just 6 years old, and the legal proceedings continued until I turned 16.

    I get that breakups are emotional roller coasters for parents, but the deal is, it shouldn't hijack your kids' childhood. Striking a balance between personal emotions and creating a stable, nurturing environment is key to fostering positive growth in your little ones.

  • Every issue comes down to communication breakdowns, no matter how complex, every solution improves with aligned communication expectations.

  • I am very child oriented and always ensure the best interest of the child are at the root of every discussion and decision.

    It's easy to get caught up in hurt feelings, you're working with your ex, it's definitely not easy. I bring a calm and neutral vibe that has been successful for many co-parents.

  • Active listening, de-escalation, and thinking outside the box.

  • Having a growth-mindset and being child-focused.

  • What I find most fulfilling in my role as a family mediator is assisting parents in transitioning from addressing their relationship challenges to collaboratively finding solutions for co-parenting.

    It's about guiding them beyond their couple-related issues and towards a constructive approach to shared parenting, ensuring a positive and stable environment for their children.

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